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Finding
your Split-apart/Soulmate
Bliss, happiness and a problem free relationship? That is a myth.
When in search for our other half we tend to have high
expectations. We believe this soulmate/split-apart will be the answer to
all our relationship woes. It’s
no wonder most of us search the world over in vain to find our one true
match; what we are looking for is indeed not our match, but our
opposite.
When the souls were split-apart, they were not equally divided.
If they were we would be at conflict for the interests would be similar,
but there would be no intrigue for the thoughts would be the same. But
for opposites, when the split-apart finds each other the soul is
complete. One body ends where the other starts.
It’s not a problem free relationship, it’s an understanding
of each other so the problems are dealt with not put aside. One is
always surprising the other because it was all parts of themselves they
not only were missing, but desired. The comfort zone is naturally there.
No pretense, no facade.
There is no game playing or lies between you because there is no
need. There is an Empathic connection where understandings of feelings
are involved. Trust is a given. You not only feel, but know your partner
is true because they are a part of you and you are a part of them even
though you walk around as two separate beings. You share one soul.
If you are unsure the person you are with is your soulmate/split-apart,
then chances are they are not. There is no doubt. But don’t be
discouraged. The person you are with may be the person you are meant to
learn by in this life. Your other half may not be ready yet either. You
may not find your other half for lifetimes. After all it’s not really
a search anyways. Your split apart and you will merge when the lessons
you both need to learn have been achieved and it is time to merge. No
sooner. Fate and destiny have control over that.
You see, fate and destiny will only merge these two split-aparts
if they can be joined permanently. If one or both are not ready the
merge may not hold and the desire to roam will begin again. For example:
Have you ever met someone you knew you were supposed to be with but
time, opportunity or life in general just did not make it possible? Well
chances are that was your split-apart/soulmate. But it was not time yet.
Fate and Destiny allowed you two both to feel what it was like to
give you a taste. Then maybe you would be encouraged to learn from your
relationships to feel that feeling again. And it is one enormous rush of
emotions to have it and watch it slip away.
You search for the feeling again in everyone you meet. Even
planting artificial feelings and emotions in you to make believe the
feeling is the same. As I mentioned, when the person you meet it is
truly your other half. You will know it.
A lot of people mistake infatuation bliss for love. In the
beginning of a relationship, known as the honeymoon stage most people go
through a blissful blindness they mistake for love. This feeling slowly
diminishes as you notice the quirks of your partner. With your other
half you don’t go through a time of bliss and blindness similar to the
honeymoon stage. It’s more of a shock period where you are trying to
disprove the thought of really having found your split-apart/soulmate.
When the realization comes, you are complete, the chapter for the search
is complete. You are whole!
Reprinted with
permission
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