Nudism
and Sex
By
Andy Staveley
I think nudism and sex does get
mixed up sometimes. I think that in Europe and particularly in
Germany the people are more in touch with themselves and more
comfortable with nudity. I remember walking round the Englische
Garten in Munich some years ago. It was full of nudists and naked
people just enjoying themselves the same way in which clothed
people would. No one batted an eyelid and its probably how nudism
was intended to be. I cannot for the life of me imagine the same
scene in London's Hyde Park. Well I can, but it wouldn't be
pretty.
The point of nudism surely is the
sense of freedom and the choice to remove clothes, go for a swim
and just generally chill out. I am not sure what all the fuss is
about. I wonder sometimes why people go to extraordinary lengths
just to get naked even in mid winter when any fool can see its
best to wrap up warm.
There is a certain element of
voyeurism in naturism. I am convinced of this. Most of it is
harmless and mild but endless photos of guys seeking pleasure in
having their photos taken - standing straight, arm on hip, staring
out to sea - the emphasis on 'look at my willy' is really not a
good promotion of nudism in general. Even nude on a beach, I would
prefer my lower half left out of the picture but would have no
objections to being photographed fully in a group with others
naked. I would not like to be photographed posing just for the
sake of it. This has nothing to do with not being ashamed or being
ashamed of anything.
Nudists who make a habit of this
attract ridicule and do naturism no favours. In the United Kingdom
there are several nudist beaches. Unfortunately, these beaches
inevitably attract the 'man in mac' types and all the nudists tend
to be bunched up into some signposted area with big read warning
signs as if the occupants of this part of the beach are abnormal.
Even more disturbing is that they are almost always against a
backdrop of sand dunes. Look closely and you can see the glint of
light shining off the array of binoculars and bird watchers
amongst the grass - sadly they are not seeking the feathered
birds. I am sorry if I paint a sorry and seedy picture of nudism
in the UK. There are of course places where you can find secluded
locations and out of the way places where you can relax and enjoy
nudism as it should be enjoyed.
Having enjoyed naturism in the past
in countries where the climate and environment is more conducive
to feeling the wind between ones legs, I am not against naturism
in any way at all. For me naturism is a personal thing. Perhaps
something to be enjoyed with a group of friends or whenever the occasion
lends itself. It is not something that will cause me to run off in
desperation to find the nearest place to remove my clothes.
So, nudism and sex. The two are
tied obviously - I hear you gasp. Look around the internet to try
and find a reasonable naturist site such as this one and you find
endless exploits of photos of naturists, nudist videos for sale
and nudist sites designed for people to come and ogle.
Great if your a voyeur and this is
what you want. How many genuine naturists have posted their nude
pics somewhere on the net only to find that they end up on some
porn site or adult image bank. Failing that, and I am sorry to be
blunt, but how many end up decorating someone's desktop and
objects of lust and desire by people saving money on buying the
latest Playboy mag.
Naturists need to be careful. If
your footloose and fancy free and really don't give a damn that's
fine but what happens when you get married, have kids maybe, and
then, lo and behold your 9 year old photo of you naked is found
plastered all over some website. Believe me, it happens.
The reason why naturism and sex go
hand in hand is the reason we have naturist clubs that do not
generally accept single men. The safety and security factor of
such clubs provides a better environment for nudists. There are
also plenty of 'swingers' who are into naturism in a big way.
Naturists attract the wrong types. Its a fact. Another reason why
clubs are so popular. Seclusion is a kind of protection. It is
such a shame that it has to be this way. If our society were more
liberal and we had all become used to naturism and nudism in the
parks and streets of our land then perhaps many more would be
encouraged to shed their clothing.
And finally, naturism is all about
getting back to nature? I am not so sure. What I do find funny is
naturists wandering around a supermarket carrying shopping bags,
wearing sun shades, a watch, shoes or trainers and not a stitch of
clothing. Surely, that was never meant to be. It cannot be too
hygienic in a supermarket surely.
From http://www.birminghamuk.com
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