|
Outdoor Sex
by Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.
Excerpted from "The Lovemaking Smorgasbord - A Couple's Menu for
Feeding Passion & Fidelity."
Spring and autumn are the perfect times to engage in some delicious
outdoor sex. I find early spring, late summer and especially early fall
the most wonderful times to get back to the primal sexual basics. There
are many reasons why I feel this way, with the most important being that
an outdoor tryst is one of the best ways possible to renew passion,
because it combines several passionate activities into one. Being naked
outside elicits deep, primal, wild and uninhibited desires, it’s
adventurous and can be spontaneous. With the right scenario you can also
make it romantic.
Having sex outdoors is a great way to add some excitement and variety to
your sex life. I must admit that personally I don’t feel there is
anything better than outdoor sex. The feel of the elements on your naked
body elicits uninhibited passions. The touch of the wind, the earth, the
sun, and the water on your naked body can be very arousing. Even if you
are alone and masturbating, outdoor sex can greatly enhance your pleasure.
I once had one of my best sexual experiences ever, masturbating alone,
naked on a beach with the most incredible breeze blowing across my body.
With outdoor sex, the entire world can become your bedroom, providing
endless opportunities for enriched excitement and enhanced pleasure. It
can be tender and soft or wild and animalistic.
A great adventure for you and your partner is to gather up a blanket, pack
a lunch and head out to a nice isolated, private spot in a park or by a
lake; someplace that is enjoyable for the both of you. Make sure it’s
isolated or you may get arrested. Hang your clothes over a tree branch and
spend the entire day there being naked. Bask in the beauty of nature. Let
it consume your naked senses.
Nature provides you with a fantastic sexual playground, where different
textures and varied places such as on the grass, in the water, bent over a
stump, hanging from a branch, lying on the sand, on flat land or on a hill
etc. will enhance your sensations and provide you with the ability to
maneuver many different positions and techniques. Make love over and over
whenever the mood hits you. You will be amazed how spending the day naked
will help you feel in the mood quite frequently. Be adventurous and
explore.
You can surprise your lover with an outdoor quickie, or a beautiful
lovemaking event or plan a whole day of savoring. Get more creative by
adding some role play or pack a picnic basket with some of your favorite
foods to play with, like strawberries or bananas, whip cream, ice cream or
whatever you desire and feed each other like Kings and Queens or place it
strategically on the body to be eaten. It can also be great fun to romp in
your own yard, porch or patio under the stars or in broad delight.
After sharing such a delightful outdoor tryst with your lover, you will
not only be physically satisfied, but you will also discover that you have
increased feelings of closeness and intimacy.
The feel of the elements on your body will turn you both into wild animals
and renew your passion to new heights. So go ahead, get naked and have
some fantastic outdoor sex soon!
About
the Author
Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed., is a sex
counselor/educator and author helping monogamous couples increase sexual
satisfaction, be better lovers and keep the passion alive. She is also
author of the hot new sex guide for couples titled, "The Lovemaking
Smorgasbord - A Couple's Menu for Feeding Passion & Fidelity."
http://www.smolderingembers.com/smorgasbord.html
______________
Copyright 2005
|
