Excerpted from “The Lovemaking Smorgasbord – A Couple’s Menu for Feeding Passion & Fidelity.”
Spring and autumn are the perfect times to engage in some delicious outdoor sex. I find early spring, late summer and especially early fall the most wonderful times to get back to the primal sexual basics. There are many reasons why I feel this way, with the most important being that an outdoor tryst is one of the best ways possible to renew passion, because it combines several passionate activities into one.
Being naked outside elicits deep, primal, wild and uninhibited desires, it’s adventurous and can be spontaneous. With the right scenario you can also make it romantic.
Having sex outdoors is a great way to add some excitement and variety to your sex life. I must admit that personally I don’t feel there is anything better than outdoor sex. The feel of the elements on your naked body elicits uninhibited passions. The touch of the wind, the earth, the sun, and the water on your naked body can be very arousing.
Even if you are alone and masturbating, outdoor sex can greatly enhance your pleasure. I once had one of my best sexual experiences ever, masturbating alone, naked on a beach with the most incredible breeze blowing across my body.
With outdoor sex, the entire world can become your bedroom, providing endless opportunities for enriched excitement and enhanced pleasure. It can be tender and soft or wild and animalistic.
A great adventure for you and your partner is to gather up a blanket, pack a lunch and head out to a nice isolated, private spot in a park or by a lake; someplace that is enjoyable for the both of you. Make sure it’s isolated or you may get arrested. Hang your clothes over a tree branch and spend the entire day there being naked. Bask in the beauty of nature. Let it consume your naked senses.
Nature provides you with a fantastic sexual playground, where different textures and varied places such as on the grass, in the water, bent over a stump, hanging from a branch, lying on the sand, on flat land or on a hill etc. will enhance your sensations and provide you with the ability to maneuver many different positions and techniques.
Make love over and over whenever the mood hits you. You will be amazed how spending the day naked will help you feel in the mood quite frequently. Be adventurous and explore.
You can surprise your lover with an outdoor quickie, or a beautiful lovemaking event or plan a whole day of savoring. Get more creative by adding some role play or pack a picnic basket with some of your favorite foods to play with, like strawberries or bananas, whip cream, ice cream or whatever you desire and feed each other like Kings and Queens or place it strategically on the body to be eaten. It can also be great fun to romp in your own yard, porch or patio under the stars or in broad delight.
After sharing such a delightful outdoor tryst with your lover, you will not only be physically satisfied, but you will also discover that you have increased feelings of closeness and intimacy.
The feel of the elements on your body will turn you both into wild animals and renew your passion to new heights. So go ahead, get naked and have some fantastic outdoor sex soon!