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The Five-Fold Kiss in sex magic presents an entirely different view point
than it does in regular circle work or ritual. My partner and I have been
practicing sex magic for about twelve years now and we feel it enriches
the start of our work, empowers us and makes the skin-to-skin contact more
potent.
Many people find the
subject of sex magic uncomfortable. We felt that because we were witches,
the magic that happens when we do ritual together should be a part of the
lovemaking we do as a couple. Here
you will find the ritual of the Five-Fold Kiss in the manner we use, based
on its having worked for us.
Yes, it is sexual.
Yes, it should be used between partners in intimacy. Whether you use this
as a private event or in a circle with coven-friends is entirely up to
you. Be sure of your comfort zones. If you are comfortable among friends,
getting intimate with your partner, be it for magic or play, that’s a
personal choice. I present our view of the Kiss below, for those of you
unsure of how to begin bringing sexual intimacy and depth to your magical
lives.
We use the Kiss to
welcome each other into the circle we create around our bed for those
occasions when sex magic is needed for its power and potency. Please
understand that we are longtime partners and maintain sexual health
between us monogamously.
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Man To Woman
A deep and loving kiss
on the mouth, open or closed.
“Blessed be Thy
mouth which speaks the sacred words of the Lord and Lady and words of love
to me.”
A soft kiss between
the breasts.
“Blessed be Thy
heart which holds the wisdom of the gods.”
A tongue swirled
around first one nipple and then the other.
“Blessed be Thy
breasts, for they feed evolution.”
A lingering kiss at
the level of her womb.
“Blessed be Thy womb
which brings forth life and those who come after us.”
Tongue tastes of her
vagina and swirls around her clitoris.
“Blessed be Thy
passage of all womanhood as it pushes our children into the world. And
blessed be Thy mound of woman, for it brings forth the pleasure of the
Goddess.”
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Woman To Man
A deep and loving kiss
on the mouth, open or closed.
“Blessed be Thy
mouth which speaks the sacred words of the Lord and Lady and words of love
to me.”
A soft kiss in the
center of his chest.
“Blessed be Thy
heart which holds the wisdom of the gods.”
A kiss in each of his
hands, center of the palm.
“Blessed be Thy
strong hands, a warrior-poets only tools.”
A soft kiss to the tip
of the penis. (drawing it into the mouth is all a matter of mood)
“Blessed be Thy
manhood from which your seed is given.”
A kiss on each
testicle, again to what extent is an individual choice.
“Blessed be these
holders of evolution, for in them lies the code of humankind.”
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If we are doing a full
circle for one of our holidays, we move on to the knees that kneel before
the sacred altar and the feet that brought thee to the path.
However, most of the time, in moments of sex and magical work, when
we must call forth the greatest power, we use the above ritual. It’s
simple and expresses the joy of sexuality that is the Goddess and at the
same time, expresses the Blessed Kiss with intimacy and love.
© 2001 - AB
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